I’ve always imagined the source of my entrepreneurial ambitions stemmed from a mixture of fancy things like wanting to build a legacy, disdain for systematic rules, and really wanting an Audi R8. All joking aside, I’m not sure if something like entrepreneurship can be passed down through genes but I wouldn’t be surprised if somehow my desire to start and build something for myself and my family came from my Grandfather.

“Yeah, I think that’s what Darwin discovered on the Galapagos Isles” (Credit)
In the mid-20th century, my grandfather, or ye-ye (爺爺), traveled from North-east China to Hong Kong (in the very south of China) to escape the Mao Ze Dong-led purges under the new Communist government. His family had been killed off and their land had been taken, which was the case for millions of Chinese at the time.
He began a family in Hong Kong as a teacher and writer, mainly for Anti-Communist publications. At 40 years old, he traveled to the US alone to make money for his family of 4 children (including my Dad), and when the money found its way, had the entire family move over to Santa Barbara, California with him. He started a Chinese restaurant, which was tended to by all members of the family.
As an academic with high-profile Anti-Communist writings, It was easy to acquire a green card, and he was also offered entry into Master’s programs from UC Berkeley and Stanford. At 40 with a family, he decided to turn it down, deciding instead to tend to his restaurant for 6 and a half years, which was enough time and money to put my dad, uncle, and aunts through college.
I talked to him about my startup, Enplug. He had these 3 lessons for me:
1. Your experiences are the most important
My grandparents worry about me a lot and I spend a lot of time communicating to them that, contrary to what they believe, I’m eating and living well. They told me that they also worry for my financial endeavors, but that at the end of the day it’s the experience that really counts, even if it’s failure. To hear this come from an Asian parent, much less a grandparent, is astounding as Asian parents are known for their strict teaching regimen and adherence to low-variance routes to success (in my case growing up, it was becoming a doctor).
This sounds incredibly obvious to anyone in the least bit acclimated with Silicon Valley core values but this is largely oblivious to 99% of the world. He remarked that it’s only Americans that see things this way, and added that only in America could Bill Gates start from a garage and become the multi-billionaire he is today. There’s a lot of truth to this – there are still a lot of countries in the world that inherently discourage entrepreneurship simply because failure is intolerable.
2. Learning occurs through interaction, not books.
I mentioned that I feel very fulfilled working on my startup, that I had already learned a lot more this year than the years I’d spent at UC Irvine. My grandfather remarked, “Of course, in school, it’s just books. In business you interact with so many different people, all with their own ideas and opinions.” These interactions are more important to your real-world education than what can be taught at school. Again, not only is this earth-shattering coming from my own lineage, but I was giddy given my own polarizing criticisms of college education.
Indeed, working on a startup is human interaction. From learning from others, to building products for people, selling to real people, and working with other people, these are all interactions that one must carefully observe and act upon accordingly in order to succeed.
3. Hustle and be competent in a lot things
Starting life in the US was notably hard for someone who only spoke Chinese, not to mention supporting a wife and four kids. The restaurant wasn’t single-handedly adequate, the kids had to work part-time as well. Since having steady revenue was so vital, he believed that as long as you have two hands you should be able to do anything (this sounded a lot better and poetic in Chinese). He said if the restaurant ever failed, he could at least do things like garden work (which he is quite good at) for money if it came down to it. The underlying motive was that you should try to be competent in as many things as possible, so that you can always do something.
He noted that these days, it’s not so much having two hands but really having a brain (once again, this was also a lot more poetic in its native form). I noted in my previous blog post that although I’m not particularly specialized in a single skillset, I have a pretty good abilities across-the-board. In fact, in at least our startup we even prefer hiring those who have broad skillsets. Having someone do 5 things on a B-level instead of having 5 people do 1 thing each on an A-level sounds poor but is actually the leanest way to start up.
My grandparents in Copenhagen, 2010
There’s a great thread on Quora that asks who the greatest hustler in history is. The general theme among the people listed is that they built something tremendous out of nothing. From having endured what was undoubtedly unworldly amounts of grief at the hands of Communist massacres, to building something from nothing in Hong Kong, to doing it again in the US, my grandfather easily ranks as the world’s most inspirational hustler to me. To even acquire a fraction of his success and happiness in my life would be enough to make me a fulfilled human being.